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Topic Posted by: Anon
Date Posted: Wed Aug 18 11:29:13 2010
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yes I am posting anon and NO NO NO I don't want to argue over the proposed mosque. I understand freedom of religion, private property, constitution rights and so forth.  I also understand the feelings of people who lost loved ones in 9 eleven and what an emotional ordeal it continues to be. 

yesterday my best friend posted on FB how she didnt give a rat's behind about a mosque going up because people had the right to worship wherever they wanted.  I stupid posted 'sorry I disagree'.  That's all I said.  Then I got attacked for everything in the book including fanatical Catholic and right wing Republican (ME who is a registered democrat). People jumped on --some for and some against and it was a mess. my best friend called me an idiot on FB.

Lesson learned. I defriended about 20 people cause I am sick of the controversy including my friend. I only posted one comment -- sorry I disagree.  I feel really terrible and don't even know why.

I don't agree with the mosque idea because despite freedom to worship, we have never had a terrible thing as this happen on our homeland.  Yes Pearl Harbor. Maybe somebody should have offered to buy that land privately and hold onto it around there for a future project like some type of rehab place for our military.  After all, our military went to war over the fiasco (please don't jump me about Bush, lol) and those serving have so many difficulties to deal with when they come home, physically and mentally. I just think we should all rethink this.

I'm NOT trying to open a can of worms.  I just wanted to post my feelings.  I love catching up with my family on FB and play the occasional Farmtown.  What a mess.





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Posted by: Dr. Love
Date posted: Thu Aug 19 21:16:37 2010
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How come no Christian Churches are allowed to be built in Saudia Arabia, or most other muslim countries?

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  • Because Saudi Arabia does not have a constitution, and does not provide freedom of religion and freedom FROM religion. So now is it 'I know you are but what am I?' mentality at work here? Apples and oranges. eom Kelly Oh!!
  • Shouldn't those who wan't tolerance, provide it to others?
  • Yes they should.-Miss.B
  • Not sure what you're getting at here. Should Saudi Arabia have a constitution and Bill of Rights? Ideally, yes. But, then again, the constitution is not always honored in THIS country, either, hence the need for judges to review and rule whether challenged laws are constitutional or not. eom Kelly Oh!!
  • What part of that is not true? If they want tolerance they show it to other people.
  • Then let's set an example of tolerance by not objecting to this community center. eom/Kenara
  • I'm sorry if I don't feel compassion or tolerance towards a religion that condones beating women, slavery and other such horrible acts and people who murdered thousands in the name of that religion. On top of that to build a mosque right near where the attacks happened. Muslums have done nothing to assure the American people they do not hate us.
  • Well, as a follower of Jesus you should probably ask yourself what he would say or do in this situation and act accordingly. After all, isn't that what Christians are - followers of Jesus? eom Kelly Oh!!
  • Because I am a follower of Jesus I have no tolerance for a religion that will condone the abuse of women and stoning of others. I suppose I should pray for them.-Miss.B

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    Posted by: MamaMia
    Date posted: Thu Aug 19 17:27:39 2010
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    While building the Mosque/Community Center is legal, I feel that the people who want it shouldn't build it so close to Ground Zero since they well know that so many people are hurt and affronted by it. I think they should look to build it in another location.

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  • Where is the point from Ground Zero where it's OK to build a muslim community center? 4 blocks? 8 blocks? Nowhere in lower Manhattan? Not on Manhattan Island at all? eom/Kenara
  • How about the people who want to build this Center being somewhat considerate of the feelings of Americans? Of course, there is no exact point where it should be built......maybe just not that close to where the Twin Towers stood. MM
  • There is already a mosque four blocks from the Twin Towers site. It has been in operation since before the World Trade Center opened, although it had to move several years ago. Should it close down? The people praying at this mosque are not the ones who attacked the Twin Towers. The people who will be playing basketball at the community center are not the ones who attacked the Twin towers. Those terrorists are dead. What is the advantage of leaving a ruined building at the site where the community center is to be built? eom/Kenara
  • And, btw, how do you know the people who want to build this community center are not Americans too? eom/Kenara
  • I don't think the other Mosque should be closed. Why should it? The new Mosque/Center could be built in another area so, ethically, to avoid all the hurt the subject is causing, I think an other area should be considered even if Americans are helping fund it. MM
  • When I say Americans I mean, of course, all races and religions which make up America. MM
  • Adding: As you have said, there is a Mosque near the area already for people to worship so why is the opposition to build in another area so very strong? MM
  • This is a community center with a mosque inside, and it's not at Ground Zero, but several blocks away. The equivalent of a 'city council' in NY approved it, as did Bloomberg. And now it's grown into a ridiculous 'scandal' which, to say the least, is sad. Again, I don't see anyone freaking out about a strip club in the area, and doesn't that offend the delicate sensibilities of all who are protesting? eom Kelly Oh!!
  • The mosque already nearby is so small that only about 20% of its members can worship at one time. This community center will have a ''prayer center.'' It will not be another mosque. There is evidently a difference in the Muslim religion. eom/Kenara
  • Thanks for pointing that out, Kenara :-) eom Kelly Oh!!
  • I guess we'll agree to disagree? MM
  • On the strip club(s), in the area - I don't think it's a true comparison - a strip club and 9/11. MM
  • MM, the New York Dolls strip club is one block away from the proposed community center. So I guess the definition of 'hallowed ground' may vary. Watch Keith Olbermann's commentary for more details. eom Kelly Oh!!
  • I will. MM

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    Posted by: ingyandbert
    Date posted: Thu Aug 19 8:20:25 2010
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    What Shea & KellyOh said.

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    Posted by: Kelly Oh!!
    Date posted: Thu Aug 19 6:18:57 2010
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    What Keith Olbermann said.  And I dig my heels in even more when the same folks apoplectic about this mosque have no issue with a strip club (New York Dolls) being the same distance from ground zero   Funny, isn't it?  Or are all the strippers Christian and therefore untouchable (no pun intended)?

    The constitution is clear on freedom of relgion and freedom from religion.  Muslims have the right to build a mosque wherever they like.  And the prevailing notion that this somehow "insults" the victims is an excuse to further disparage Islam.  Mayor Bloomberg is correct.

    Let's be clear.  Extremists attacked the World Trade buildings, mostly from Saudi Arabia.  And the Bushes were tight with Saudis, and a Saudi owns a big chunk of Fox News.  So do we attack Saudi Arabia, hate Saudis and blame Saudis?  Hell no, we blame all Muslims!  The people who attacked the towers, the Pentagon and hijacked the plane are the people responsible for this attack, not Muslims in general.  And Christians aren't responsible for Timothy McVeigh blowing up the Murrow building in Oklahoma City. 

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  • As far as FB is concerned, I enjoy it but don't take it seriously. The same ignorance runs rampant there as any messageboard, same game playing (and I don't mean Farmville) and same everything you'll find here, except you sometimes actually know who the 'friends' are in real life. eom Kelly Oh!!
  • I don't think that the chunk of Fox News that is owned by the Saudi prince is that big. However, all news stations are owned in part by big corporations who have a vested interest in how the news is reported. Nothing new. Petra
  • Speaking of games, Kelly you want to be my Farmtown neighbor? I need more neighbors?
  • Timothy McVeigh was a committed atheist. Maybe we should blame atheist for his deeds.
  • Maybe we should blame the terrorists themselves regardless of their religion or ethnicity. eom/Kenara
  • It just so happens that these terrorists(the ones who want to bring down our country) happen to be extremist muslims. It's a little hard to look past that fact.
  • First of all, McVeigh was raised Catholic, and though he distanced himself, he said he believed in god. He' was more 'Christian Identity' than agnostic/atheist. As for Muslims hating us, yes, some do - they don't like the U.S. nation building and the extremists are NOT the majority of the Muslim population. They make more noise, they do horrible things, therefore all Muslims are painted with the same brush? Why, that's like me saying that Sarah Palin appearing with a witch doctor/exorcist on stage makes her and anyone who follows her tweets witch doctors/exorcists by association! While most witch doctors I kniow aren't terrorists bent on killing Americans, do we really know what they're up to? Hmmmm. Or, perhaps, painting all Christians with the same brush as that sick f*ck who killed a late-term abortion provider AT HIS CHURCH means all Christians are gun-toting nutbags who kill at will? Not sure. At any rate, not understanding Islam is one thing - xenophobic, racist fearmongering is quite another. Grow up, America. eom Kelly Oh!!
  • And really, if foisting Christianity as the 'official' religion of the U.S. (it's not) is anyone's goal, perhaps they should start acting more like Jesus and less like a self-righteous, corrupt Pharisee. Jesus was about love, not hating others or disparging and/or distorting others' religious beliefs. eom Kelly Oh!!
  • I think political correctness is going to be the death of this country. Almost all Muslims do hate Americans. They're the ones who are terrorizing this world. Of course there will be crackpots from every major religion. Who's responsible for 9/11? It was the extreme Muslums. At some point we have to put political correctness aside and see the problem for what it is.
  • Miss B, the Muslims who are terrorizing the world are a very small percentage (6%) of the Muslims. They are the extremists. In 2009 the Muslim population in the world was 1.57 billion. You’re being very irresponsible when you say almost all Muslims hate Americans. That’s like saying almost all Christians are bad. / Vivian
  • Miss B, where are you getting this information? I work with quite a few Muslims, none of which hate America or Americans. In fact, they appreciate the opportunities in this country and are no different (other than their religion and/or country of origin) than me or any other people raised Christian or Jewish. They work hard, pay their taxes, raise children, and are certainly not terrorists. With free speech comes great responsibility, and to say something like you did is very irresponsible. Are all Christians right-wing extremists? Are all Jews? What about atheists? What bothers me more than anything is the preponderance of misinformation out there and how it's wormed its way into peoples' heads as an actual belief or fact. If you study Christianity, you know that Christians committed a LOT of atrocities over time, but not all Christians are bad, in fact, quite the opposite is true. It's when so-called Christians use the bible as a weapon to disparage others as somehow 'lesser' than themselves that I have a real issue. Bad people exist and commit horrible acts. This has been going on since the beginning of time. It is not p.c. to call people out on extremist rhetoric or misguided beliefs, it's basic human decency. eom Kelly Oh!!
  • Kelly, I'm not neccisarly refering to American Muslums, the ones you associate with. Think about it, the ones in the middle east, you really think most do not hate Americans. I sure wouldn't want to go find out would you?-Miss.B
  • You know what? I honestly don't know what they think. There's so much ignorance and misinformation in this country I can't possibly begin to address what non-US born Muslims think or believe. My point is to think critically and in context. Nazis commited unspeakable atrocities against Jews and gay people, over 6 million people were slaughtered. Does that mean all Germans want to kill all Jews and gay people because some of their citizens did (and some Americans believe this way)? We are very lucky to not live in tyranny and that we have access to so much information. My suggestion is to think critically and question extremism no matter where it comes from. Jesus is a prophet in Islam as is Abraham - just FYI. eom Kelly Oh!!
  • Yes I am aware that Jesus is a prophet in both Islam and Abrham. You didn't answer my question. Would you want to take a chance and find out how they truely feel of Ameicans? I'm guessing the answer must be no. You probably value your life more. My point is that they do hate Americans over there enough to wish them harm. Some even go to high extremes. -Miss.B
  • Yes, if I had the opportunity to visit Muslim countries I would. I would also be hyper-aware of what the expectations would be as an American woman travelling abroad - whether I need to cover my head, where I can travel and when. Many countries in the Middle East are dangerous to travel in regardless of my national origin, simply because of ongoing conflicts going on. And you know what? There's places in the UNITED STATES I don't want to visit LOL I don't do well in places where people are openly hateful toward people who don't agree with them, which is why I love living near a big city. However, if I felt threatened ANYWHERE in the world, I would not go back. Is it safe for me to travel alone? Probalby not, but, then again, I don't travel alone in the U.S. And really, I'm done with this because I see I can't make headway on my original premise, which is don't paint a group of people with one brush. And understanding what's going on in the world and how to get along in the world is a lifelong work in progress. I stepped away from religion for my own personal reasons, but I don't see any reason to return, especially when I hear or read some of the hateful things expressed by the allegedly devout members of ANY religion. Jesus taught tolerance and love, not hate and false superiority of one religion over another. And I'm pretty sure he also knew that most people can only strive for that and some will never get there. The end. eom Kelly Oh!!

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    Posted by: Anon
    Date posted: Wed Aug 18 23:57:48 2010
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    Thanks everyone for posting so far.  I feel better. I am a long time poster here and I know we all don't have the same political views.  The same for people who live in different regions of the US...some of us feel removed from like the Mexico border problems and/or New York because we don't live close to those areas, some like Obama, some dont, some watch Fox, some CNN but I hope to always respect those who disagree...I am just hurt because I lost my friend over something I cant even help.  (except that I shouldn't have responded in the first place, shoulda known better) and after watching some news today, I am wondering if the mosque will even be built. There's no easy answer there when so many hurt feelings will never be healed.

    I decided to unfriend more FB people this evening.  I am keeping my family (we live far apart and I love seeing the pics of their children too) and Farmtown players who only exchange gifts with me and enjoy the game.  I deleted people who feel the need to post every ten minutes. I WILL delete anybody who starts making politcal waves in the future, lol.

    Thanks for listening.

     


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    Posted by: Bonnie
    Date posted: Wed Aug 18 20:10:18 2010
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    I agree with Mayor Bloomberg. We live in a country where we are free to worship as we choose. If we don't allow for the Mosque, what's next? A refusal to allow a temple or church? That said, I also feel that, considering the enormous controversy which has ensued, the Islamic leaders should demonstrate generosity and grace by locating the proposed mosque elsewhere.

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    Posted by: Grandma b@s
    Date posted: Wed Aug 18 19:44:08 2010
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    I have facebook and like it for what I use it for, games and keeping up with friends and family.  I try to stay away from any political stuff on there for the reason you mentioned.  I have had a couple of ''friends'' un-friend me because I have a particular game app installed and I refuse to delete it.  Mostly because of a witch hunt from a competing game app that tries to convince everyone that that particular app is CHEATING..   I've had some un-friend others because of politics, some over a JOKE that they didn't find funny...  I may not have agreed with the joke but I would never un-friend someone over a difference of opinion. 

    That all being said, here is my opinion - I pretty much agree with Shea and Kenara (and you, I think)   

    After all, wasn't Timothy McVee a "Christian"  when he bombed Oklahoma City?  So should we not allow any Christian church near that site?  What if the 911 terrorists had been disgruntled Americans?   It wasn't the religion that took out the WTC, it was an extremist group.   What if it had been some fundamentalist Baptists?

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  • You’re exactly right about Timothy McVee. He was a terrorist. In fact I was going to post that myself. / Vivian
  • We don't have Christians planning and plotting our destruction and if they were they are not true Christians. Timothy McVey was not a Christian. No true Christian will bomb a building. That would be against the Christian teachings.-Miss.B
  • McVeigh was an atheist.
  • Sorry DL, wrong again. Throughout McVeigh’s childhood he and his father were Roman Catholic and regularly attended daily mass. He later wrote a letter claiming he was agnostic. / Vivian
  • He was a confirmed athiest. DL
  • By the way, throughout his childhood, Barak Obama and his father attended muslim worship. Does that make BO a muslim? DL
  • His natural father left when he was two, and when his mother and stepfather married, he attended both Catholic and Muslim schools in Indonesia before he went to live with his grandmother. So is he a Catholic? A Muslim? What? WHAT??????? His mother wanted him to be educated in more than one religion, which, to me, is an admirable goal. If more folks were, perhaps they'd stop making silly statements and sharpen their critical thinking skills. eom Kelly Oh!!

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    Posted by: Kenara
    Date posted: Wed Aug 18 18:50:17 2010
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    Here are some excerpts from the transcript of Keith Olberman's Special Comment last Monday.  Note that it is NOT a mosque that is planned for this site:

    ...There is, in fact, no "Ground Zero mosque." It isn't a mosque.  A mosque is a Muslim holy place in which only worship can be conducted. What is planned for 45 Park Place, New York City, is a Community Center. It's supposed to include a basketball court. And a cullinary school. It's to be thirteen stories tall and the top two stories will be a Muslim prayer space ...

    ... this place — Park 51 — is not even at Ground Zero, not even 'right across the street.' Even the description of it being "two blocks away" is generous.  It is two blocks away from the northeast corner of the World Trade Center site. From the planned location of the Sept. 11 memorial it is more like four or even five blocks. You know what is right across the street? I went there yesterday, to refresh my sense of the World Trade Center, in which I worked nearly 30 years ago.

    At Church and Veezy, so close that the barbed wire of Ground Zero obscures its spire? St Paul's Chapel. Been there since 1766, where Washington went the day he was inaugurated, where the first responders came for relief nine years ago. You know what's also closer to Ground Zero than this Muslim Community Center? Church of St. Peter — at Church and Barclay Streets. As the sign says, New York's Oldest Catholic Parish.

    People hear "Ground Zero Mosque" and they think Mecca in the backyard and a loud call to prayer and they take umbrage.  "We got no more than a few inches of skin and a couple of pieces of bone. Ground Zero is the burial place of my son," said Joyce Boland at the public hearing about the Center. "I don't want to go there and see an overwhelming mosque looking down at me."

    I honor her pain, and her fear, but Mrs. Boland has nothing to worry about. Unless she walks directly to it, she'll never see it. This is what you see from where the Center will be. Another non-descript building across the street. This building and others like it will block views of the Trade Center, and views from the Trade Center.

    It certainly will stand out on the north side of Park Place, but amid the canyons of lower Manhattan, it'll just be a distinctive building that if you happen to wander down a side street near the Trade Center, you might see. You know what you'll see there now? This. The Burlington Coat Factory, abandoned since 2001 when the landing gear from one of the planes fell 90 stories and went through the roof. For nine years nobody's been willing to buy that building, just to knock it down and build a new one ...

    ...  But back to Downtown. Does the name "Masjid-Manhattan" mean anything to you? Let me take you, in conclusion, to 20 Warren Street. Not much to look at. Not from across the street Not from up close. That open door is the only thing that distinguishes it from the rest of the grill-fronts of the neighborhood.

    That, and the yellow sign there. "Entrance To Islamic Center." It's in the basement. It is a Muslim house of worship. Masjid-Manhattan. It lost its lease in a larger building down the street, two years ago. The new facility is so small that only about 20 percent of worshipers can use it, at a time. But "Masjid-Manhattan" opened in early 1970. Four blocks away, the World Trade Center opened, in December 1970.

    The actual place that is the real-life equivalent of the paranoid dream contained in the phrase "Ground Zero Mosque," has been up and running, since before there was a World Trade Center, and for nine years since there has been a World Trade Center.

    Running, without controversy, without incident, without terrorism, without protest. Because this is America, dammit ...

    You can read the full transcript or view the video at http://www.truth-out.org/keith-olbermann-there-no-ground-zero-mosque62376

    As for facebook, I am a member to keep up with distant relatives and old friends, including a couple from AMC boards years ago.  I try to keep politics out of my posts, but I did have to respond to a niece-in-law who recently thought Orin Hatch had a great idea.  LOL!

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  • This is all true and a lot of people have been saying exactly this, but some people, especially Newt Gingrich don’t want to listen. It’s funny though, right after 9/11 Newt was saying exactly the opposite that he’s saying now. A lot of people are trying to make this partisan. / Vivian

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    Posted by: Holly
    Date posted: Wed Aug 18 17:09:05 2010
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    I feel your pain because I have lost friends regarding politics.  I'm not on Facebook so I don't know how it works.

    I can see both sides on the mosque issue.  I can understand why some people think that it's insensitive to build a mosque near ground zero.  However,  I do not believe that the terrorists from 9/11 represent the Islam faith. 

     


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    Posted by: Shea
    Date posted: Wed Aug 18 16:00:19 2010
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    First Amendment - Religion and Expression,

    Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.


    Period.


    It doesn't matter if it offends people, is a terrible idea, might cause problems, is disrespectful, most people don't want it, whatever else you might want to throw in there. All of that is irrelevant. Even the arguments in favor of the mosque are irrelevant. This is not a political question. This is a constitutional question. If this goes to the Supreme Court, I predict a unanimous decision in favor of allowing the mosque.


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  • Shea, I know this should not be a political question, but this is an election year and there are those who are going to ride this subject right into office. As someone said below, this mosque is being built on the site of 9/11. That is not true, but that is going to be what many people will believe. You know in politics if you say something loud enough and long enough there are people who will believe it.
  • This is true. It is also true that the majority opinion is that this shouldn't be allowed. And that there are Democratic and Republican candidates pushing each other out of the way to say we need to stop this from happening. The Constitution trumps it all. I'm very dismayed to find how few people in this country continue to not get that. The Constitution isn't there to protect only the popular religions, ideas, and actions. It's there to protect the unpopular ones. If we are not all given the same rights, none of us is guaranteed of those rights. // Shea
  • I should also have said in my original post that I am not a big Facebook fan. // Shea

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    Posted by: Miss Harold
    Date posted: Wed Aug 18 15:39:36 2010
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    I respect anyone's right to worship as long as their religion doesn't involve harming other living beings (including animals), or discriminating against women, gays, or any other group that is likely to be discriminated against. Unfortunately, I haven't found an organized religion that fits that description (Buddhists, maybe?). I guess that's why I don't go to church.

    I'm no expert on Islam, but it does seem insensitive to build a mosque so close to ground zero since the hijackers on 9/11 did so in the name of Islam (at least how they interpreted it). I would like to believe that they were an isolated case, but honestly I don't know enough about Islam to know what to believe.  

    I hope I haven't offended anyone, but those are my honest feelings.

     


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    Posted by: Elaine
    Date posted: Wed Aug 18 14:56:51 2010
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    Just a red herring, keep people away from real issues. First of all, the proposed mosque is NOT on ground zero...it's blocks away. There are other mosques in the vicinity. So what's the big hairy deal?  I could see if it was being built EXACTLY on the site but it's NOT. Just a big tempest in a tea pot to stir up more hatred and bigotry.

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  • It's two blocks away from the WTC footprint. Essentially, ground zero. Buildings in a 5 block radius were affected by the towers coming down and the smoke/smog. Just because something is Constitutional, doesn't mean it's appropriate. That's the problem here and politics really shouldn't have anything to do with it. I think the people responsibile for building the Mosque should take into account if this is just another thing that will create anti-muslim sentiment.
  • Annie - I agree with you. MM

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    Posted by: Lurker
    Date posted: Wed Aug 18 14:43:05 2010
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    I agree about FB. Its a nice place to visit and OK for posting pix and chatting with long lost friends but thats all.
    I think if they're really planning to put a mosque at ground zero its a bad idea. Aren't churches protected from search and seizure ? If a terrorist group secretly organizes themselves in there isn't it possible that they could sets up another attack to bring down whatever gets built up there again ? why risk it

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  • If you read my post above, you will see that there is already an actual mosque (the new building is a community center, not a mosque) near the Twin Tower site. It has been operating since before the World Trade Center opened in 1970. Should we force it to close? I think not. Why risk it? Because our freedom, the freedom of ALL of us, is worth the risk. eom/Kenara

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    Posted by: Patem111
    Date posted: Wed Aug 18 13:43:27 2010
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    I'm sorry that happened to you Anon and Annie.  I have to go on record as saying that I hate and despise facebook!  I have an account because my cousin posts pictures on there of my godson and my sister in law posts pictures from family gatherings.  But I hate everything about it. I've seen what happened to you happen to other people, so I'm VERY careful of what I write on there or what I comment on.  Also, I don't care about what game you are playing, if you found a cow for Farmville, if you are now friends with someone else, or if you commented on someone else's status.  TMI.  I'm sure there's a way to edit out all that crap, but I don't care enough about it to take the time to figure it out.  I'd rather just complain about it! LOL  I liked MySpace much better.  I'm kind of sorry that fell out of favor and that Facebook took over. 

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    Posted by: Annie
    Date posted: Wed Aug 18 11:37:50 2010
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    I have to say, I've watched friendships dissolve like crazy on Facebook because someone posts an opinion on something controversial.  Back during the 2008 election, a friend of mine would "share" articles and video clips endorsing the candidate she was supporting.  At the time, these "shared" links would get posted to my page and anyone elses page she chose to post on.  I sent her a private e-mail asking her to please stop posting the stuff to my page.  While I appreciated her opinion, it wasn't my opinion and I would rather not have it on my page.  She wrote back that I was obviously uninformed and "stupid", yes stupid, and has not said a word to me since.  That's fine.  I've noticed people get really riled up on Facebook.  I'm there to keep in touch with people and see how my friends kids are growing.

    Incidentally, I'm in the NY area and I agree with you.  I totally respect ones right to worship, but it seems insensitive that it's being built right there.

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  • I sure learned my lesson. This friend always posts controversial stuff but this dumb time I bit the bait. Anon
  • Annie, I had a similar experience, although not on Facebook. Someone insisted on sending me what I considered offensive emails, and I asked her to stop a couple of times, but she refused to stop. Now I block her. That's a shame. But why couldn't this person honor a simple request? Why keep pushing it? // Shea

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