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Topic: Mother's Day


Topic Posted by: Deb
Date Posted: Thu May 8 18:46:23 2008
Additional Comments: What will everyone be doing this Mother's Day?  I think we're just going to cook some steaks on the grill and enjoy being home.  I've had to take my mother to the doctor several times this week and so I won't be driving to see her.  (My parents live 60 miles from me, but they come to the doctor here where I live.  So....I have to drive 60 miles to their home, bring them back here and then drive them back home and then come back home....makes for a very, very long day.)  With gas prices being what they are, I can't afford to drive down a third time in one week.  My mother-in-law lives just down the street so she'll be coming to spend the day with us.  Looking forward to steak and baked potatoes.



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Posted by: Roxie
Date posted: Sun May 11 2:53:14 2008
Message:

Nothing special here. But I will be remembering and missing my mother all day, I'm sure. I do that alot any way. She died in 1980, but all of you whose mothers have passed, you know what I mean! I will still be celebrating and happy, remembering what a good mom I had.

My assistant at work gave me a beautiful hanging basket for Mother's Day and it made me feel so good. She knows I lost my mother and I lost my daughter 16 years ago and thought it would be a hard day for me. I thought that was so very sweet and considerate of her!! But it is not a sad day for me. I love having a special day to celebrate my mother and being a mother, even if they're not here physically.

My husband always gives me roses and a card from Chico, my dog (& kinda like my son, LOL) with a pawprint signature from an inkpad!! I love that!

Happy Mother's Day to all!

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  • Hi Roxie - I hope that you are having a great day. It sounds like you have a wonderful assistant and hubby. I love the idea of a pawprint - that's pretty sweet. I'm spending the day with my parents (in an unexpected way). My mother just turned 83 last month and I treasure every minute that I get to be with them - like you, one of these days the memories will be precious. (((hugs))) Deb

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    Posted by: Tosca
    Date posted: Sat May 10 8:53:04 2008
    Message:

    One of my grown kids will be here with us on Mother's Day, but he'll have to return to his home the same day in order to get to work on Monday.  All my other kids are too far away (over 500 miles)  I'll be seeing one the first week of June and another in late June, so we can hold off til then! 

    Don't know what the husband has planned after church. I really don't care.  He's so great to me every day, I don't need a mother's day. Does that sound hokey? Sorry. But that's the way I feel!

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  • That is so sweet what you said about your husband and doesn't sound hokey at all. I'm sure that you'll have a wonderful time with your son and it's not that much longer till June gets here. My plans have changed for tomorrow. My sil was planning to bring my parents to my home, but my dad fell this morning and so my brother and sil brought them to the er here in the town where I live. (He was hurt, but didn't require an ambulance.) He was admitted to the hospital so it looks like that is where I'll be. We don't have to have a special day to celebrate - every day is special to us. Hope you have a great time tomorrow. Deb

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    Posted by: javajunkie
    Date posted: Fri May 9 0:36:01 2008
    Message:

    Maggiemae: I really feel for you, not being able to spend time with your daughter. It must be very difficult to be that far away, and I'm sure that you wish she would find the time to see you. Hopefully, you will get some Mother's Day wishes on the phone.

    To all of you who have lost you mother, I feel for you too. I'm a giant emotional nerve today! Mothers should be celebrated everyday. By far, the HARDEST job in the world.  Have a good one, everybody!

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  • I agree with you javajunkie - it would be hard being that far away. I get to see my daughter at least once a week sometimes more. Being a mother is a hard job, but the rewards are awesome!! Have a wonderful day.

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    Posted by: maggimae
    Date posted: Thu May 8 20:36:13 2008
    Message:

    Deb,

    Could you possibly go to where your mother lives and take her out Mothers Day? If she is not well, you never know how long you'll have her with you. Also, you could take dinner with you as I know eating out can be pricey. I'm sure Janey will agree that you should be with her as much as you can while she is here.

    We'll not be doing anything special. My daughter lives 300 miles away and leads such a busy life that they don't come over here. I drove over there (LA) once in March and once in April. Since I'm almost 70, it takes a lot out of me to drive over there. I probably won't be going again until Christmas. In past years I've gone over for a month in summer and rented an apartment, but I can't leave my husband that long any more. So I'll just stay home and have a pity party. LOL.

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  • Maggimae - Just found out this afternoon, that my sil will be bringing my parents to my house for Mother's Day. As I said, they are in bad health, but still like to get out of the house (and not just for doctor's appointments.) That is quiet a trip and it would take a lot out of me also. I'm very fortunate to have my family live close by. I don't know the background on your hubby, but I'm sorry that he isn't able to make the trip with you. I'll be sending (((hugs))) to you on Mother's Day. :-) Deb

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    Posted by: Janie
    Date posted: Thu May 8 19:53:50 2008
    Message:

    Deb. What a good daughter to help out with your Mom's doctor's appts.  Sorry she is not well.  My Mom passed away this passed Feb so this will be my first Mother's Day without her.  I have been handling her death pretty well but at times like this, I keep thinking what I should get her for M.D. and then I realized that she isn't here any longer to get a gift.

    My dil is a gourmet cook, so our family is going to her house for filet mignon, crab and asparagus.   My daughter who loves to bake is bringing a 'surprise' desert.  Looking forward to it.  Hope everyone has a great Mother's Day!

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  • Janie - I'm so sorry for your loss. I've been very blessed - we still have both of my parents and both of dh's parents. All four of them are in bad health. (Some of you may remember my fil had pancreatic cancer, mil has lupus, my parents both have heart problems, and just poor health in general.) I can certainly understand looking forward to your Mother's Day meal....sounds delightful!! Have a wonderful day!

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