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Topic: College daughter is coming home Sat. night!

yeah! Can you believe a whole school year has come by? Remember how sad and worried I was when she left?

Now she is done with her Freshman year. She has her classes, dorm, roomie for next year!

She just finished Finals. On a sad note, she and the High school Boyfriend, just broke up.! Thats sad. I don't know details. But it has been hard long distance. He is nice but he gets depressed and negative alot. He is nice enough with her, but its hard long distance.

But I have been good and have not said much, waiting, as I have seen her grow and he would get jealous if she went here or there, with new gal and guy friends.

Still sad :( my heart hurts for her! I have not talked to her yet, bc she texted her brother and said, don't call until Friday.

Anyway it will be different when she is home after just having 3 of us here! Be more messy thats for sure! She needs to have some down time then look for work!

But the Best is she will be home yeah a girl in the family with me!!

Below is daughter from the college *Spring sing* we went to in April! Her dorm won!

Hey Bonk,  Just picked up my Princess today!  I can relate to everything you said!  I have watched her grow and change this year too.  Isn't it great that you can feel more proud about the women they are becoming?  I know I did a good job but I am still amazed at the person she is. 

On another note.  It will be weird having her home.  My heart was broken when she left but we managed.  Now all these questions...She has basically lived on her own for almost a year.  Does she have a curfew?  Do I make her have dinner w/ us? Can she go to Daytona w/ her friends?? LOL,  She may have grown up but I am still getting used to it.

I think she will not have a curfew but just for respect, I will need to know approx. what time she may be home.  The way I look at it, is if I visit my mom, I let her know my plans so she doesn't worry. And maybe Sunday dinner will be mandatory!

Good Luck and enjoy her!  I know you missed her as much as I missed mine!

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Abby, I wonder also! I think them checking in is good. come in quietly etc. I already told her she needs to keep the bath room clean and help out She can walk the dog. I just spoke to her. She was busy today and tomm working the Graduation. She gets paid and doesn't have to leave the dorm until sat. pm. But she is sad about BF and tired from working! Where does your daughter go to college? mine is in So. Calif. at Westmont a small Liberal arts school. ~~Bonk~~

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Posted by: susienews
Date posted: Fri May 2 17:17:10 2008
Message:

Okay, I'm POSITIVE my mother was not nearly as excited as you are when I would come home from college.  I think she was enjoying finally being rid of me.  My parents' gift to me for high school graduation was LUGGAGE.  If that doesn't say ''get out of my house'' I don't know what does!  LOL!

Got any big plans for the summer?

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ha ha! cross your fingers, thats how close we are! I hope she gets a job! She might visit some friends. We will go to beach (you know where!) she will to stuff with friends. It will be noiser here for sure! ~Bonk~~

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Posted by: Nicki
Date posted: Fri May 2 15:46:13 2008
Message:

Enjoy your time with your daughter!

 

cute pic! time really does fly!

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It sure does, of course the college year is shorter then the real year! LOL~~Bonk~~

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Posted by: Lisa P
Date posted: Fri May 2 15:17:11 2008
Message:
Wow, has it been a year already? Time sure does go by quickly. Enjoy your visit with her.

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I will Lisa, thanks! Bon

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